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Monday, August 1, 2011

THE UNTOLD STORY OF HOW UCHE IWUJI ALLEGEDLY LOST PREGNANCY TO STD


Uche Iwuji
When a few months ago the story of how  actress Uche Iwuji lost her almost 19 weeks old pregnancy filttered into town, not few people felt pity for her. But just recently one of the big eyeballs who is rightly informed,  revealed to REPORTNIGERIA, that though our darling Uche lost her pregnancy which is pitiable, but might not be unconnected to a long time sexually transmitted disease, which she had been habouring in her system unknowingly. 
According to the report when she first had course to visit the hospital during pregnancy, the doctor told her she is suffering from complications and to better abort the pregnancy and go for a sugery or risk having the baby and later go for the sugery, but that if she opts for the later he wouldn’t  give a quarantee. Our adorable Uche whom we learnt had the intention of settling down with the supposed father of the baby whose name was given as Raphael simply opted to have the baby and later go for the surgery and and shortly after, she lost the pregnancy.  We decided not fest on hear say alone, but to further confirm the story and fortunately met the fair skinned actress in an event weeks after and in the process of trying to have her relate her own part of the story, she was impatient to believe we were trying to lure her into an intervieew which we learnt she detests so much lately, and she walked out, and said, I no send!  you people can go ahead and write whatever you like, but as for interview I won’t grant any press interview again. 
To set records straight here is Uche's response to some media houses immediately after the incident;
How I lost my 19 weeks pregnancy - Actress, Uche Iwuji
...more after the break 
Uche Iwuji

"You have heard that I lost my pregnancy, so what else do you want me to say again? I tried to keep my private life private until I saw it in your magazine that I am pregnant. But the most painful thing is that I lost the pregnancy few days before your publication came out. People didn't know I was pregnant and I would have preferred to keep it that way. But I know sometimes it's better to clarify things with you guys than keep mum. Well, I had complications. I was going to use the toilet when my water broke. I was rushed to the hospital and was forced into labour, so I lost the child. I was 19-weeks gone never expected this to happen." Uche Iwuji in a telephone chat with Afolabi Oyekoya of City People Magaine.Asked about the man responsible for her pregnancy, uche's reply when you continue..."I met Raphael in 2006 through a friend and we got talking on the phone. He came to Nigeria and we started dating. We had a good relationship but between 2007/2008, we didn't see much of each other  so there was a break until 2009 when re connected and have been together since then. That I got pregnant for him doesn't mean we were serious but he is the kind of man I can love forever. There has never been any marriage plans, we were just dating." 
The fair skinned actress had been linked with so many controversies lately
which unfortunately she has been unable to clear.  My people na so we see am o.

http://www.bellanaija.com/2009/09/11/multi-talented-uche-jombo-makes-production-debut-with-star-studded-nollywood-hustler/

Marketers Jostle over J-Martins forthcoming album

Jmartins
It will not be wrong to say that J-Martins is now reaping the fruit of his long years of labour.
The Anambra born singer who hit limelight after the release of his heat banger, good or bad which featured the likes of Timaya and Psquare, had since then not stopped counting his blessings.
While work is yet to be concluded on his forthcoming album which will drop soon, notable marketers in Alaba are said to have started jostling over the album already. The likes of T-Joe, one of the ruling names in Alaba and some many others were said to have started indicating their interest.
In a chart with the dude recently, he confirmed this but maintained that the album will not be released that soon, for personal reasons, although all is set for the release of some singles, namely, kele papa, Pride (Ego) and good time.
According to J-Martins recently, the three singles shall be released with a video in August, 2011.

OSU (OUT CAST) SYNDROME… SOLUTION AT LAST -Saint Obi

saint obi
 As usual, I was hugely engaged, but very sadly, I lost my only surviving paternal uncle. Wow! End of an entire generation. Suddenly, I am the oldest male in my immediate family and you know what that means...responsibilities and more responsibilities. No “wahala,” God is in full control.
I will also like to commend you all that have written to me; your glowing comments are most appreciated. However, there was this mail that caught my attention. The writer berated me for saying that I eat “pomo and its delicious neighbours.”
My answer to the guy is, I am very real and not fake. Any food I decide to eat is out of choice, not necessity. If I want to demolish [sorry, savour] a dish in Hilton or a five-star hotel, all I need to do is, waka enter there and give myself a treat. Say I be star no be say I no be 9JA man. Stardom no reach for my people food or my tummy. In fact, my belly is proudly and unapologetically Nigerian. Period!
Something else caught my fancy, ONE TERM TENURE FOR THE EXECUTIVE arm of government, proposed by President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.
As a consummate and passionate observer of current affairs in Nigeria, I feel a sense of national duty to lend my voice to this raging issue.
President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan should be applauded for such a courageous proposition, especially, knowing that he will not be a beneficiary to such legislation. Nigeria requires a paradigm shift urgently and Jonathan is keeping to his campaign promise of Transforming Nigeria for good.
Opposition parties have rushed to town with their usual Pull Down Syndrome. President Jonathan means well and in my view, he ought to be given a fair hearing. 
The crux of this edition of STARK NAKED is the unfortunate racism going on in our back yard.
It is called the OSU CASTE SYNDROME.
I know how appalled most of us were at the apartheid regime of the then South African government. Nigerians made concerted efforts (human and material) in support of our fellow brothers and sisters; in far away South Africa.
I know so many musicians/ freedom fighters that went out of the business immediately Nelson Mandela was released; Sonny Okosun of blessed memory is a sparkling example.
As we fought racism and the release of Nelson Mandela, how many of us made any effort at fighting racism in our backyard or for our OSU brothers and sisters who have been in bondage for centuries?
There is an old saying, remove the speck in your eye before attempting to remove that in another person’s eye.
This senseless syndrome started centuries ago. Folklore describes them as a group of people in Igbo land, whose fore fathers were PURPORTEDLY used as sacrifices to the gods. Instantly, they became properties of the gods, untouchables, ostracised from regular society and treated as inferior beings.
I thought the gods [and anyone associated with it] are supposed to be revered and not reviled.
My fore fathers selfishly and insanely arrogated to themselves a cacophony and pitiable title: FREE-BORN.
Over the years, one question keeps bugging my soul; if my so-called free born fore fathers, out of non-exposure, illiteracy and ignorance, enjoyed this dance of shame, this stance of colossal stupidity, abuse, subjugation and marginalization of their brothers and sisters, what about you that exists in the 21st century; in this era of knowledge?
Most Igbo men and women interviewed say their silence or inaction is as a result of long held tradition... “If my fathers’ didn’t change the phenomenon, I will not dare it, I don’t want to incur the wrath of the gods?”
A statement in the year, 2011? Unbelievable!
This position is no longer tenable. Reasons:
·         All taboos and negative myths against our OSU brothers and sisters have been found to be complete balderdash.
·         My mean ancestors say the OSUs’ are inferior, but modernity has quashed that; Our OSU brothers and sisters are some of the most brilliant and educated Igbo people.
·         Our caste brothers and sisters are extremely industrious and hardworking.
·         Our brothers and sisters are some of the best looking species in the black race.
·         They are very kind hearted and generous.
·         Above all, our caste brothers and sisters found Jesus Christ (became born again; spoke in tongues) long before most of us, the so-called, free born.
Today, over 90 percent of Igbo people are Christians and if the Holy Bible teaches, “love thy neighbour  as thyself,”  the natural pertinent question is, have we the so called free born loved our OSU brothers and sisters as ourselves?
Why this inhumanity against fellow man?    
Are we Christians because that is in vogue or are we truly followers and doers of HIS word?
Tradition is good, but senseless and baseless tradition must go!
If some communities could abolish the OHU (SLAVE) syndrome: by asking such slaves to perform some community rites, why can’t we borrow a leaf from that to end this scoreless scourge?
It must be stated here though that in recent times, there have been gradual, snail-speed, pretentious integration between the OSU and the so-called free born.
Sometimes, I can’t help laughing at our hypocrisy. Today , so-called free borns and  our caste brothers, hang out together, eat together and even sleep with each other as boyfriend/ girlfriend, but when it comes to the main unifying platform -marriage, “the monstrous fang of discrimination rears its ugly head.”
In most parts of Igbo land, when a man/woman finds a bride/groom and informs his/her family, the first assignment both families do is send out local detectives to each other’s village.
Mission: investigate if the other party is of the OSU race.
SAD! VERY SAD!
Loads of efforts have been expended by many anti-OSU caste proponents in a bid to rid Igbo land of this crime against humanity. The usual response they get from so many Igbo people is, “if you want to end the OSU CASTE syndrome, go and take a wife from there or give out your daughter’s hand in marriage to someone from there.”
This scapegoat approach is certainly not an effective way of ending this ugly menace. (To be continued)

MEANS OF TOTAL ERADICATION OF OSU CASTE SYNDROME

After thorough research, we can confidently posit a solution.
If Igbo people could end the OHU syndrome, with Village Level Abolishment; same trajectory could be applied to deal a decisive blow on the OSU CASTE syndrome; surely, leading to its complete and permanent eradication.
             
At this communal level, where almost everyone is related, it becomes easy to accept and respect any decision/ law adopted by the community.
In other words, if someone marries into or from an OSU caste family, he or she will not be excommunicated.

If there are simple rites [with non-voodoo connection] to be performed as a way of appeasing the Amalas (die-hard village politicians), SO BE IT.

CONCLUSION
If we claim to be Heaven bound at death by virtue of being good Christians, most of us will be rudely shocked when we get to the gates of Heaven.

Let’s make peace with our OSU brother whose only crime is finding himself where he found himself.
Pause for a moment and reflect on this stark reality.
You could have been that OSU brother you discriminate against today.
You might scream NEVER but that my friend is the hard truth!
If you didn’t choose to come out through your mom and dad, then it’s obvious that you could have landed in that part of town you abhor today.
Therefore, why do we judge a fellow brother for something he knows nothing about?
Why judge a fellow Christian [filled with the Holy Spirit] when the Holy Bible says do not judge another lest you be judged?

Man’s inhumanity against fellow man will never go unpunished.

The large heartedness we exude to outsiders must start from within our shores.
Unlike most things in life that have advantages and disadvantages, abolishing the OSU Caste syndrome has no disadvantage or negativity.
Let’s harness the power, intelligence and resources of our brothers and sisters for the good of all.
Abolishment of OSU CASTE SYNDROME is attainable and sustainable.
The only constant thing in life is change.
Let’s put OSU Caste syndrome behind us.

Where there is a will, there’s always a way.  You and I can do it!

Please, pass on this message. Lend your voice, if not your weight.

-courtesy Yes International